Today I'm going to talk about distance. Well... not distance like maths or anything, but the fact that someone lives far away from another person.
So, ask you may already know, I live in the United Kingdom, and I left my 'home country' nearly a year ago. I had really good friends there, I mean, I still have tho... And at the end of this July I will see them again.
Now, I wanna point out some things that distance might have ruined:
1)Attitudes- What I think is that some people might have changed with time. I'm not saying that is a bad thing, but if they changed for worse they can go f*ck themselves then.
2)Relationship- Probably your 'comfort zone' might be ruined because we don't see each other for a year now, and we don't have that confidence just like before.
3)Don't want to hang out with you anymore- So this is what I'm most afraid of. We don't communicate face to face for a long time, and sometimes we chat on Facebook or whatever, but when we see each other, they might not want to be with me because they're afraid that I changed and I want to show of. (I mean, living in the UK hasn't been a really good experience for me so far, so show of what?)
But, I think I'm not making my point here.
If you do live out of your original country, and after a while you go back just for visit, try to show that you did not change, and that you still want to be with your friends in there.
Try to tell them your experience on a different country, and share your 'adventures' since you moved.
Chat with them a lot, but in my opinion, don't just talk about your other friends, and how cool they are or whatever, try to make them feel comfortable near you and that they can still count on you for everything.
So yeah, this is what I wanted to talk about :D
Hope I could help you with something ahah. ^-^
Give me some suggestions on what should I write next.
Love you,
Raquel
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